When Did Filming Videos Become More Important Than Being A Good Samaritan?

Why does it seem like there are so very few good Samaritans these days? And why are people more interested in filming from their mobile phones now, instead of actually doing something to help? Have people become that self-absorbed, that they are more concerned about their videos going viral, rather than trying to make a difference on this planet?

I say this because I saw in the news recently a video recording of a Dunkin Donuts employee taking a huge pitcher of water and then dumping its entire contents on a homeless man who had fallen asleep at a table while charging their phone there. Then, if that wasn’t enough, they began to verbally abuse the homeless person, shaming them, and telling them they weren’t welcomed there again.

My question is this.

How does something like that even remotely come across any person’s thinking as the right thing to do?

Watching that video reminded me of something I once read about many years ago. It was the story of a pastor from a very prominent church in Texas who had dressed up as a homeless person and sat upon his church’s steps one Sunday morning with his hands outstretched looking for a handout. In a congregation of hundreds who had shown up that day, not one single person had offered anything to him. When everyone was inside waiting for the pastor to appear, he suddenly entered and walked up to the pulpit, undisguised himself, and told the congregation they should all be ashamed of themselves, that their action was the exact opposite of the teachings of Christ. He then ended the service that day.

What a powerful message right?

Sadly, it really does seem like our world is becoming more and more consumed with pleasing itself than in helping anyone else out from the kindness of their heart. All one needs to do is peruse through the countless YouTube videos where people have witnessed crimes in the making, bullying, and sometimes even of someone attempting to take their life.

I was horrified when I watched a movie the other day where a guy had fallen onto some train tracks after having a seizure and instead of anyone helping to rescue him, they had their phones out and were filming it as it happened. While that may have only been something from a movie, it’s actually not an unheard-of thing and is really just art imitating real life. People have become so concerned now to get noticed that they would rather film something like this that could become viral and get them noticed, rather than step in and try to help.

I sincerely hope that if I ever was in a coffee shop and was about to witness an employee taking an action like dumping a ton of water onto a homeless person, that I would say something and try to prevent it from ever happening.

I sincerely, hope that if I was ever waiting for a train and someone had fallen on the tracks or was about to jump in front of an oncoming train that I would do everything I could to rescue them.

And I sincerely hope that if I ever saw someone being bullied that I would step in as well.

I can promise you this. There is no video that I could ever record, no amount of likes that I could ever get, and no amount of fame that would ever be worth the sacrifice of overlooking someone who might be in need.

Frankly, I’m ashamed of that employee’s action from Dunkin Donuts and hope for their sake that they might see the err of their ways at some point down the road. Equally as important, I also hope that one day, we all might wake up and stop trying to get our 15 minutes of fame by doing things like filming videos of people in need. Instead, I pray more of us will walk through any fears we may have and become the good Samaritan who tries to make a difference, as our world truly needs a lot more of them right now…

Peace, love, light, and joy,
Andrew Arthur Dawson

Trying To Create A Little Peace And Contentment, As Joy Continues To Elude Me…

The feeling of joy is something that has been overly lacking in my life for a number of years now. I’ve given it my all to cultivate even a small slice of it, yet the feeling continues to elude me. Sure, I’ve had plenty of moments of happiness along the way, especially when engaging in something fun, but happiness isn’t joy.

Sure, I can eat a scoop of ice cream and get a little happiness from it, but usually not joy. I can play a game of mini-golf and get a little happiness from it as well, but still not feel any joy. I can even take an exotic vacation somewhere or buy a new car or move into a new home or have the most incredible intimacy with my partner and get temporary happiness from each of them, but rarely have I ever felt joy from any of those things.

Frankly, joy has never seemed to be something I’m able to cultivate by any of my own actions. Rather, it seems to be something that spontaneously occurs and when it does, it feels as if everything is happening exactly as it’s meant to in my life and that I’m at total peace and contentment with myself. To put it in a slightly different way, when joy shows up, it doesn’t matter what I’m doing, where I’m at, or what state of health I’m in, I just get this sense of exuberance about life itself and have an incredible desire to help people, to show as much love as I can to anyone I come in contact with, and generally feel close to God while the feeling remains present.

I’m not sure why I haven’t felt joy in so long. I used to think my level of pain was blocking me from feeling it, yet the last time joy suddenly showed up in my life, my body was hurting pretty bad, so I had to accept that wasn’t it. Then I started to think that maybe if I started reaching out and helping others more frequently, I’d have more joy show up in my life. But that didn’t work either, as I began to feel like I was helping others for the wrong reason and became more frustrated than uplifted from doing it. Most recently, I’ve begun to think that maybe joy comes from some Higher Source and that maybe there are times it’s pulled from our lives to strengthen our faith and resolve.

Whatever the reason joy continues to elude me, I’ve come to accept the best thing I can do is engage in activities that can at least bring me some peace and contentment in life, which are the byproducts of having joy itself. Ironically, my sponsor just last week asked me to write a list of things down that I can do by myself that tend to bring me those two feelings. So, here are eleven things that I came up with.

  1. Working on complex puzzles.
  2. Coloring in adult coloring books.
  3. Working in the garden.
  4. Sitting in a park by the water.
  5. Watching uplifting movies in the theater.
  6. Watching uplifting shows on television.
  7. Taking late night drives in my car while listening to tranquil music.
  8. Playing mini-golf.
  9. Writing articles for my blog.
  10. Reading YA science fiction or fantasy novels.
  11. Meditation

I honestly wish I could have come up with more, but sadly, this was all I could think of. Regardless, each of these things are activities I try to do on a regular basis, with maybe the exception of reading novels, as I haven’t picked up one in a good, long, while.

Nevertheless, in lieu of being unsuccessful in all my attempts to create any joy, I continue to do the best I can to cultivate the byproducts of it, that being peace and contentment. And while they don’t seem to fill the hole within me that only joy seems to be able to replenish, they do at least help me to keep going for another day…

Peace, love, light, and joy,
Andrew Arthur Dawson

A Sad Demise That Came From Texting And Surfing The Internet While Driving…

Texting and/or surfing the internet while driving is considered to be far more dangerous than driving while intoxicated and tests have actually been conducted to prove this. Yet, that still hasn’t stopped many of us from continuing to do it, that is until something bad ends up happening, like it did for someone here locally that a close friend of mine knows.

It happened just over a year ago in Monroe County, Michigan. On a casual drive, a former Michigan State University basketball strength coach with no prior record chose to surf the internet and text a few people. Sadly, at some point shortly thereafter, he hit a car directly in front of him, while travelling at a speed of 78 mph, and in the process ended up killing a 35-year-old mother and her 5-year-old daughter who were the occupants of the vehicle he struck. While his defense argued profusely with evidence that he wasn’t doing either at the time of the accident, the court still threw the book at him issuing a sentence of 7 to 15 years with the first seven being mandatory.

I have done a tremendous amount of pondering about this man’s demise ever since my friend let me know the result of his court case and it has weighed quite heavily upon my heart. So many times, I myself have done the very same action of picking up my phone and quickly looking at something on the internet or feeling the need to respond to some text message or texting someone I suddenly thought of for whatever the reason. Several of those times in fact as a result, I have found myself coming close to hitting another car, but, thank God, I never did. So, in lieu of seeing how similar my own actions have been on the road, are actually no different than a man who’s now heading off to jail for at least 7 years, I know I need to change my driving ways immediately. I can’t in good conscious keep using my phone while operating my vehicle as I have been, because it’s only a matter of time where I too could end up causing a devastating and life-ending accident.

Frankly, I’m not sure I could ever live with myself if I ended up causing the death of another, nor would I probably survive having to live life behind bars either. In light of me saying that, I also know there is no amount of internet surfing or text messaging that is ever more important than protecting human lives. I truly feel sad for this man who’s now going to be spending many years locked up, because I’m pretty sure he thought like the rest of us that his internet surfing and texting was totally harmless while driving. But alas, his life has been instantly changed now because of it, simply due to the fact of thinking a message was that important to send or respond to and thinking that a quick internet search was critical to get done right then, all while driving. But it wasn’t and I’m sure he knows that now. Unfortunately, it’s too late.

Nevertheless, I don’t ever want to become that person on the primetime local news who has caused an accident and the death or critical injury of another, all because I opted to place my phone as a higher priority than controlling my vehicle. I’m sure all of you feel the same as well, as much as I’m sure this man is now living with serious regret and pain over a moment he can’t take back, one where using a phone while driving tragically led to the death of a mother and her child…

Peace, love, light, and joy,
Andrew Arthur Dawson