“ENABLING is helping, assisting, supporting, or bailing someone out, in order they may avoid the natural (and perhaps unpleasant consequences of their actions.
WHY WE DO IT is because of guilt, fear, or control (but we usually call it love instead).
WHY WE STOP is when we begin noticing our own pain or cyclic insanity as a natural consequence of our enabling, and it grows larger than the “why we did it” in the first place.” (Darlene Tong)
Peace, love, light, and joy,
Andrew Arthur Dawson