Daily Reflection

“If we could change ourselves, the tendencies in the world would also change. As a man changes his own nature, so does the attitude of the world change towards him.” (Mahatma Gandhi)

Many eons ago, I had received tickets to a special early screening of a very politically charged movie about 9/11 at an artsy theater in downtown Washington, D.C. After the movie ended, I left the theater deep in thought about it, when suddenly, a major television news anchor directly outside accosted me, demanding to know if many of the problems of our country at the time were because of the current POTUS. The answer I gave her then wasn’t one she expected nor wanted to hear, as she quickly moved on to another patron who emerged behind me. What I told her was simply that the problems in our country weren’t the President’s fault, they’re ours.

During much of Biden’s Presidency thus far, as well as during Trump’s, and Obama’s, and before that Bush Jr., Clinton, Bush Sr., and all the way to as far back as I can remember with Reagan, the number of judgments I’ve heard that blame the state of our country on who’s in the POTUS position is countless at this point. How many of those judgments also came from strong devout followers from faith-based religions where judgment isn’t even supposed to be a part of their walk is also countless.

All this finger pointing at the President has always baffled me because those constantly doing it, are also the ones saying and doing things regularly in their lives that is just as judgmental and unloving and has nothing to do with who’s President. It has to do with no one else except themselves. But it’s far easier to focus on things like the high cost of housing, massive inflation, steep gas prices, tanking 401k’s, constant gun violence, and more, and place blame upon it all on the current President, rather than taking a hard look in the mirror at oneself and beginning to focus on changing our own attitudes in life. It’s by changing oneself and how others are treated is how we will ever see any positive change happen in this country.

For all those who regularly complain about any President, or Vice President, or anyone in political power for that matter, simply resorting to shouting obscenities, throwing judgments, shaming, bashing, or doing any of the sort, will accomplish nothing but spread more hatred. For five decades, I’ve watched one individual after another blame the POTUS for the misery in their lives, rather than look at how they themselves act towards the rest of the world. Change begins by looking at that, by practicing more restraint of tongue and pen, and by living out greater unconditional love and tolerance for all. Maybe if we all started doing that, we might finally see the changes we seek at the POTUS level coming to fruition because it’s already manifested within us all…

May the change I want to see always begin with me God… 

Peace, love, light, and joy,
Andrew Arthur Dawson

Thought For The Day

Today’s quotes don’t fall under any specific type of category, but given the struggles I often find myself having up in my head, I looked for motivational quotes to help keep myself going when that happens…

“The way I see it, if you want the rainbow, you gotta put up with the rain.” (Dolly Parton)

“Success is not final, failure is not fatal, it is the courage to continue that counts.” (Winston Churchill)

“Everything that you are going through is preparing you for what you’ve asked for.” (Unknown)

“Challenges are what make life interesting and overcoming them is what makes life meaningful.” (Joshua J. Marine)

Peace, love, light, and joy,
Andrew Arthur Dawson

Grateful Heart Monday

Welcome to another Grateful Heart Monday, where gratitude always gets expressed to kick the week off, which for today is for something I’ve already written about ever so slightly in my last few articles but wanted to take the time to express more deeply, and that’s the recent summer trip I took to see my closest friend, Cedric.

It’s amazing to think that Cedric and I started our journey in this life together when I was only 25 years old, and he was 34. The amazing memories we now have over two and a half decades are endless and if there’s one thing we always seem to enjoy doing together it’s taking trips somewhere. This summer it was to York, Maine, where we spent four days enjoying a section of the country neither of us had ever spent any time there.

In addition to the enjoyment of swimming in the chilly waters there and hanging out on the oceanfront top-floor balcony listening to music, especially at dark, the highlights I’m most grateful for are for the entire day we got to play six games of mini-golf (Schooner Mini Golf, Raptor Falls Mini Golf, Wells Beach Mini Golf, and Wonder Mountain Mini Golf), the drives we took along the scenic Route 1 from Saco, Maine down to Portsmouth, NH, the restaurants we dined at (Three Sisters in Biddeford, Maine, Luigi’s West End Pizzeria in Portsmouth, New Hampshire, So Zap in Ogunquit, Maine, and The Kitchen in Portsmouth, New Hampshire), the daily Starbucks hangouts that were filled with lots of laughter, especially the one in downtown Portsmouth where a total stranger named Tim told us his entire life story in an hour, watching the entire new season of The Umbrella Academy on Netflix together late at night, having the best cookies ever from Crumbl Cookies in Newington, Rhode Island, visiting Nubble Lighthouse in York, Maine, which I think might just be the prettiest lighthouse I’ve ever seen, and taking a long walk into downtown York after the sun set for the evening.

Beyond our four-day visit to Maine, I wanted to also mention a few other things I was grateful for on this weeklong vacation. The first is for reconnecting with my dear friend Sean Slater who picked me up from the Providence airport and took me to dinner in North Kingstown to Wickford on the Water where we had the best fish tacos next to an inlet and then enjoyed some Starbucks afterwards in downtown Providence. The second is for reconnecting with my dear friend Debbie Coon who met us in Quincy, Massachusetts for an early dinner at Port 305 where we sat by the water and enjoyed coffee afterwards in Braintree at another Starbucks (Yes, I know, I have an addiction to Starbucks! LOL!). And lastly, for visiting Nobska Lighthouse on my final day of the trip where they were giving away free homemade ice cream (Yum!), for pizza afterwards at Marc Anthony’s in Onset with my recovery friend Nick L., and for him coordinating for me to do a 12 Step recovery lead at his home group, Buzzards Bay Monday night, to end the evening.

So yes, I have much to be grateful for on this Grateful Heart Monday’s recap of my recent trip back east and want to end by thanking Cedric for making it all possible and leaving me with plenty of lasting memories from another vacation in our decades long friendship.

Peace, love, light, and joy,
Andrew Arthur Dawson