Why Are Most People Not Excited About The Olympics Anymore?

I didn’t watch much of the 2016 Summer Olympics this year. And to be honest, I haven’t watched much of any of the Olympics, winter or summer, since I was in high school. Life has sure changed since back then, as when I was growing up, sitting around the television and rooting on our home country in every single event, even with the ones I wasn’t interested in like synchronized swimming, was just the thing to do and we all were so excited about them. It was also the thing we all talked about in many of our conversations with each other. But now it seems like people aren’t excited about the Olympics anymore. So why is this?

Is it because each of the games always seem to be shadowed by all the doping accusations and scandals these days?

Or is it because there are countless other channels to watch on television now?

Or is it because there’s always talk about corruption in the cities where the games are held?

Or is it because many have lost faith in our country due to how it’s been run?

Or is it because so many are far more wrapped up in video games or social media than anything else nowadays?

Or is it a combination of all of the above or something else altogether?

I don’t truly now the answer to this but what I do know is that I honestly miss the good old days when I aspired to be like Mark Spitz who won a ton of gold medals in swimming a long time ago. I also miss playing basketball with a bunch of kids in my driveway, where each of us pretended to be someone from The Dream Team. And I miss goofing off in front of others with my silly attempts at doing gymnastics and laughing at how I’ll never be the next Mary Lou Retton.

But these days, you don’t hear most people talking about specific competitors in the Olympics and I would venture to say that if you mentioned one of the prominent athletes from any of the events to a random set of individuals in our country, there’s a good chance most wouldn’t even know who you were talking about. Sure they would probably know the names of Michael Phelps or Usain Bolt, but that’s only because they’re constantly plastered all over the news due to the massive number of gold medals they each have accumulated over the years.

Unfortunately for the most part these days, the Olympics come and go and people seem to be far less interested in them or any of the athletes who compete there as compared to decades past. This makes me sad, maybe for nostalgia reasons. Or maybe it’s because our country often feels like it’s going in the opposite direction. One where everyone is pulling more into themselves and withdrawing from the comradery we all used to seem to have together, especially during times when the Olympics were on.

Nevertheless, I still hope for the day to return where this trend will reverse and things like the Olympics will be a time to get excited again. One where having pride in our country means something and one where we all seem to unite together during those few weeks while they’re going on. Until then, I think I’m going to just live with my nostalgia by remembering the good old days where I’d shoot a 3 pointer in my driveway while imagining I was Larry Bird playing in the Olympics…

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Peace, love, light, and joy,

Andrew Arthur Dawson

“You’re Human!”

“You’re human!” I hear these words all the time from those who care about me, yet I find myself always trying to live above that fact. I say this because of something I’ve been quite frustrated with myself as of late. With all the spiritual work I’ve been doing on myself these past few years, I still have thoughts that occasionally pop up in my head that aren’t very spiritual at all.

Most of the time these thoughts are addiction-based and usually surround a physical or sexual attraction to someone else. But because I desire to live a pure and addiction-free life today, one where I’m doing everything I can to follow in the steps of Christ, I frequently feel that when these thoughts arise, that I must be doing something wrong.

Yet when I’ve spoken to other individuals about this, who are very much on their own strong spiritual paths and are quite monogamous in their relationships as well, they too have dealt with the very same thing of having thoughts manifest in their head from time to time of things that aren’t spiritual at all. Yet they don’t beat themselves up over them, they just acknowledge they’re human, they forgive themselves for having them, and then they move on.

But I don’t, because as my friend Steve puts it, I’ve been trying to live above a human existence. And my driving in doing so has become so exhausting. I have the tendency to believe that if I meditate, pray, and connect with God on a consistent basis, in every which way I can, that maybe I won’t have these types of thoughts anymore, that maybe they’ll just go away.

Yet I’m beginning to understand from my walk with Christ and God that I will always have a human existence and that things such as having sexual thoughts are going to occur, it’s only what I do with them that’s important.

So the good part about this is that I don’t engage in those thoughts anymore when they arise. Meaning, I don’t fantasize about them, I don’t add energy to them, I don’t relish them in any way, shape, or form. I used to, but I don’t anymore. What I need to do now is to not beat myself up over them when that happen and accept the fact that I am human and that as long as I continue living this human existence, that they will be a part of that.

I wish that weren’t so, but the reality is that they are. But beating myself up over them isn’t healthy and will only drive me farther away from the direction I want to head. That’s why I’ve decided the next time I have one of these thoughts, I’m going to forgive myself for having them and ask God to direct my thoughts elsewhere. And I’m sure in doing so I’m going to feel far better about myself and about the fact that this is just part of being human…

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Peace, love, light, and joy,

Andrew Arthur Dawson